Ok, this isn't a lesbian thing, but I saw you talking about bisexuality and wanted to share a funny story. Back in the summer between my last year of middle school and my first year of high school my mom took my phone and read my texts, finding out I was dating a girl. She yelled, told me bisexuality wasn't a real thing, etc. and forced me to break up with her. For over a year now, I've been dating a guy and she thinks my "phase" is over. The catch? Im a closeted trans gay. He's bi. In her face!